Suzydaze....oh I pray she is still in school.
Is your daughter living with you?
Have you been asked to help her out while she stays in school after she has the baby?
I personally think the worst thing these kids can do is take more than a semester/quarter off....the return rate over a semester break is greatly reduced I'm afraid.
Even the best of kids from all walks of life unfortunately make CHOICES that are dumb(some are just bound and determined to take the hard road)....but hopefully they will learn from their mistakes and able to get themselves out without a lot of harm.
I personally chose the wrong road but I kept positive about it, learned a big lesson in life and with the help of my parents(unconditional and tough love) and some really tough times I was able to pull myself out of the hole. These lessons shape who you are in the future and for this reason I really wouldn't change a thing I went through because I feel it has made me a better person. Thinking back to where I was headed if I didn't get in the mess I was in would of been an excellent career but you cannot live in the "what if" phase. Accept what has been done....learn from the mistake....keep postive and move on.
Deep conversations with my father(he passed away a few years ago) helped me immensely...I apologized to him(which I think was the hardest thing I ever needed to do in my entire life) and we moved on with the future. But to this day my mother still throws the cr*p back in my face even though I had apologized....this is just the type of person she is....I made a promise to my father to take care of my mother to the end....I wish I had never ever made that promise but I did and hopefully I am learning something through this situation but right now I have no idea what it is...
....so I take it one second at a time, do a lot of praying, and sure hope I don't totally hate my mother by the time this ends. Wow I'm sorry....I guess things needed to flow. :rolleyes:
Praying your kids make the right choices and get back on the right road for them.