Advice to give my best friend? - December 15th, 2005 at 07:32 AM
She has been going out with this guy off and on for almost 2 years. He's awful to her most of the time but sweet sometimes. It doesn't help that he hates me and I kind of hate him back. But he always breaks up with my friend then gets her back. I ask her why she takes it and she says she loves him. He calls her fat (she's gorgeous!) He calls her words I won't repeat. I know if this goes on she'll end up marrying him and be stuck for life... and I'm afraid his abuse will be more than verbal. I hear he bought her a 200 dollar ring (they just got back together after 2 weeks again) I saw how much better off she was with out him. She can do so much better and deserves better. I'm afraid she will end up very badly hurt. I won't be around next year to try and help her. I'm worried. What can I say to make her realize she can do better and he's only trying to bring her down?