The first
plant I ever purchased was a spider
plant and I still have it 32 years later! I can tell you one thing ... it's never too late to try and save a
plant. I am assuming that the mold like spots your are describing were on the
plant itself? My
plant has dropped 15 ft or more, more than once, I have taken it from the pot it was in and sliced the roots in half, I think these
plants are indestructable. It sounds to me as though your
plant is too wet and circulation around the
plant is poor. The fruit flies your describing are probably fungus flies and will die as the
plant dries out. Spider
plants can go weeks without water. Their roots are tubular and retain water. I'd let the
plant dry out for several weeks and water it sparingly afterwards. Hope this helps good luck. Andi