I haven't had to water much here in Western New York either.. lot's of rain in our neck of the woods too...
We've got some post above about tomatoes too,
and I believe it's a combo of both...
When one doesn't water consistantly, once too much, 4 or 5 days with hot and dry then you water for one hour, then two days later it rains, and it's soooooo hard to prodict the weather..
But one of the reasons' it does have something to do with the nutrients in the soil is, when ther'es hot and dry or shallow watering *not deep root watering* the
plant puts out roots very close to the upper level of soil in your garden.. *it may have a huge root system when you pull it up, but it's all up towards the top of the soil* where water would have been with quick, or shallow or frequent quick waterings..
and when that top soil area dries out, the roots, tend to shrivel up and can't deliver nutrients to the
plant "Consistantly" because those roots that dried up, dry up and then the
plant has to send out new or different direction roots, and can eventually feed it'self again..
So that's a part of it, roots drying up and not delivering key nutrients the
plant needs...
I have experimented this year with not watering at all, (only when I initially planted)
*of course we've had rain too*
so, I will continue to experiment in the years to come** with not watering frequently and letting the tomato
plant dig it's roots in deep...
to find the needed water..
and see how it goes..