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Dayne Isaac Bell
April 14, 1980 ~ August 30, 1999

One day, we find the courage to accept
That the living aren't meant to understand death,
Only to celebrate life,
And to remember that the only real death
Is forgetting...

May God be with you today and may his love help you through


G-Mom

{{{Vanessa}}} May you have peace always.

Praying for you Vanessa.

{{{{VANESSA}}}

You are in my thoughts today,
and I'm wishing you peace with your cherished memories.

Vanessa
You are in my thoughts.

Vanessa hold tight to those cherished moments
They and your strength will carry you through

You are In my thoughts and prayers.

Doreen.

Vanessa...

I feel for you so much....and I understand.

my son Steven Wayne Campbell
Aug. 24, 1981 - May 13, 1997

Many prayers for you Vanessa...and you too Fernie....

{{{vanessa}}} hugs and prayers

Vanessa I E-Mailed you about my thoughts and paryers for you .
Jimmy

You are in my thought and prayers, Vanessa...

Dianna

I put this up on the prayer list as well but wanted to add it here. This is from Vanessa and she needs our prayers more now than before.

Triss,
I will probably not be back on the forum today..unless I hear from Tricia, then I will let everyone know. However the circuits are still jammed and no phone or cell phones are going through. She was far enough away, that I am trusting in my heart to believe they are fine...just with out power.
The day has taken a turn for the worst for me....right after I posted the Memorial for Dayne, I got a call that my best friend (here in Arkansas) mother passed away this morning. I was suppose to have gone to visit her yesterday and because I wasn't feeling well, did not. This family "adopted" me in when I first moved to Arkansas 20 some odd years ago. Dayne grew up knowing her as his "granny Chandler"....how ironic that they would pass away on the exact same date...6 years between them. she had been sick and in the hospital but had come home and was doing well........now, I am just sick that I didn't put my own discomfort aside and visit her as I had planned yesterday! I just feel like the Queen of Gloom and doom all of the time. It seems that just as I grab myself by the bootstraps and pull myself out...I get knocked back down further. Although my saddness seems so trivial in the light of what is happening in the world today...it is all very real to me.

Vanessa...
I wish I was there so I could give you a big hug while you cry today...
...because I know you are crying.



Cindy

vanessa,
I will pray for you also. I'm very sorry that you have to have so much on you all the time. you are an extremely strong woman and very giving. I hope you are feeling better soon and that the heartache subsides :-(

Still praying for you, Vanessa...



Dianna

Vanessa I am also praying for you. Hope you have a safe trip and get some good news. Lynne also praying for you.Vanessa let me know when you get home so I don't worry about you no mattrer the time.
Jimmy

So sorry to hear of your loss. We never forget those who have left us but that day is the day that hangs over us with the most pain. I purchased a card for a friend whose baby passed away a couple of months ago. The words in the card I will never forget:

He is only away-
in your thoughts and your heart
you are always together;
never apart;

In your sorrow, remember-
he's only away...
though he may not be with you
the memories stay...

...and in time, when the hurt
isn't too much to bear,
whenever you look in your heart
he'll be there.

Thank you so much friends...and Tamara..that is so beautiful...thank you for sharing that.

The last picture that I posted of Dayne...was taken just weeks before his accident. He was quite an althete with many record setting events...his trophies are my treasures. But I wanted to share what he was doing in that particular picture. He was opening gifts he had received for graduation...but it was quite hysterical because he had requested...kitchen appliences!!! He was an excellent cook...and knew his way around a kitchen better than most women! He could decorate a cake better than his mom...and helped me all of the time at the bakery. It was pretty funny to me...to see this muscle bound tatooed he man...piping roses for a cake! I cherish the pictures.
Thank you ALL for your thoughts and prayers to get me through the day.........

Vanessa,

After seeing his picture, I can imagine him decorating a cake. What a wonderful image for you, I am sure!