hello... i have problems with my jade... STILL.. yellow falling off leaves... i think the root structure is quite shallow.. so it is a little unstable. I also have tiny black dots.. made sure they aren't bugs... could it be mold? As of right now.. i have no idea what to do... do i water it? leave it alone? i need some serious advice before i kill my little jade... uhg. PLEASE HELP! thanks!

katie eek