TKH, I understand about back problems. I have had problems with mine since I was around 23. Half my life! Pain killers are your very best friends sometimes.
Sitting in a car gets to me, too. When I am riding for a while, I can barely get out of the car when I get to where I am going.
Weezie, we ordered some of the miniature cowboy hats to do some some decorating with. I am thinking a corsage for Jim's mom, and a boutinerre (sp) for his dad. Those hats will help tie everything in together. My memory and guest books have pictures embossed of hats, rope, and hearts.
My aunt is making a "special" boot arrangement to honor my mother's memory. I am planning on having my son place it on her grave in NC when he goes back after the wedding. My favorite uncle died last year and we are remembering him by hanging one of his hats on the gazebo during the ceremony. I find myself being very emotional right now with missing their presence during this milestone in my life. I wanted my uncle to give me away.
My father and other passed loved ones will get arrangements made after the ceremony from the
flowers we are using to decorate. Just a way of sharing the wedding with them.
Dianna