You do have your "dinner time" filled. We have two 16 year old indoor cats and one outdoor recently tamed feral cat. It took him 8 months (when he was dumped on our street at about 6 mos of age) to decide we could be trusted. He is still skittish, but with my husband and myself he will roll over to get his tummy rubbed. We live in a remote area and he's pretty much decided that our yard is his home. We have another feral that visits ocassionally and he thinks she's the Queen. She's a Pretty Calico. He even gets along with the raccoons that we feed in the back. Be patient. Go Slow and he'll be eating out of your hand in no time.