Ok, thanks to all who helped here...
Catlover, I did cut the vincas back, I did basically what you did, look for new growth and cut back to that point. some of the brances had been so long they were weighting the
plants down. after pruning, I had nice springy little
plants. That was yesterday. I went out today to do some watering and it looked like they had grown tons of leaves over night! All those little buds were opening up. YAY
I'll take more pics after we see what's there. Thanks to you all!!
I''m sure I'll have more questions along the way, thanks for taking the time to simplify things for me, the novice that I am. I appreciate the kind help.